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Five Life Lessons for Everyone
ALFRED ADLER’S LIFE: FIVE LESSONS FOR EVERYONE - Edward Hoffman, Ph.D. “As Alfred Adler's biographer, I have learned many valuable...

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Jun 24, 20213 min read
The Positives of Learning to Play a Musical Instrument
“Learning to play an instrument stimulates the brain, improving functions like memory and abstract reasoning skills, which are essential...

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Jun 15, 20213 min read
Microaggressions in a Contemporary Adlerian Society
Courage takes on my forms and is a central theme within our work. From an emotive and linguistic understanding, courage holds many...

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Jun 1, 20213 min read
The Law of the Low Doorway
This principle demonstrates the practical, natural, and sensible utility of Adlerian theory. There is a method for everything in life...

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Mar 27, 20211 min read
Hugging: Helping Children Behave
My daughter Madisyn, who is a wonderfully strong-willed six-year-old child, didn't want to get up and get ready for school one morning....

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Feb 16, 20215 min read
Limiting Choices With Children
Offering limited choices instead of making demands can be very effective. Children often respond to choices when they will not respond...

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Jan 26, 20212 min read
Logical Consequences
Logical consequences are different from natural consequences in that they require the intervention of an adult—or other children in a ...

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Jan 5, 20215 min read


Adlerian Readings for 2021
I was fortunate to receive these books for Holiday Gifts. I have a lot of fun reading to do:

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Dec 29, 20201 min read
Natural Consequences
A natural consequence is anything that happens naturally, with no adult interference. When you stand in the rain, you get wet. When you...

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Dec 28, 20203 min read
Zip It, Clip it, or Go Brain Dead
"Zip it, clip it, or go brain dead" is something that I frequently tell myself when counseling teenagers. Let me explain: 1 - Zip it. ...

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Oct 19, 20202 min read
Reducing Fights in Families - T3 Formula
The number one thing that teenagers say that they don't like about their parents? WHEN PARENTS YELL!!! There is a simple principle that...

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Sep 28, 20202 min read


Spitting in the Soup
Me: "So you're saying, bad people broke into our house and colored on the walls with your crayons, but didn't steal anything?" Kid"....

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Sep 7, 20201 min read
Friends and family are protective factors against depression
"The extensive research identified socializing as the most impactful defensive against depressive symptoms; more specifically confiding...

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Aug 21, 20201 min read
Creating a Treatment Plan
Recently, in my supervision group we reviewed the way that an Adlerian would make a treatment plan. Here is the outline for such: 1....

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Aug 7, 20201 min read
Adlerian reflections on children resuming school
Schools in many parts of the world are opening or will be opening soon. Three questions for students that seem pertinent: 1) What did you...

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Aug 5, 20202 min read


Adlerian Counseling During COVID-19: A Short Demonstration
Adlerian theory is applicable to all phases of life, noting that transitions can cause developmental crises during which counseling is...

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Jul 25, 20202 min read
The Facebook Predator
The young lady was brought by her father because things had changed in her life. He felt as if his daughter was no longer reachable....

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Jul 8, 20204 min read


Adler humor
Adler answers the age-old question, "Why did the chicken cross the road?"

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Jul 5, 20201 min read
Implications of Adlerian Theory For Understanding of Civil Rights Problems and Action
An excerpt from this article, "On the one hand, like all other human beings they require a sense of personal dignity; on the other hand,...

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Jun 30, 20201 min read
The Fifth Force in Counseling?
I was thinking about the 4 forces in counseling (there are various lists): Psychodynamic Behaviorism Humanism Multiculturalism I am...

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Jun 16, 20202 min read
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